As an ecosystem, we have no lack of influencers. In fact, there are countless lists of industry recognized influencers — grouped by regions, gender, and market segments. Any shapes and sizes, you name it.
But this post is not about how to become an influencer. Rather, it’s a story about a good friend.
I can’t quite remember the exact moment we met. But somewhere in between tweets, there he was, offering to help and sharing his stories. Over time, as with many others in the fintech twitter circle, we became friends.
What makes a good influencer, you ask?
Perhaps someone who is knowledgeable about the subject;
Or someone who is likeable and passionate;
Or someone who is visible?
Perhaps it’s all of the above.
Or perhaps there is more.
One not judged by vanity metrics; rather, by his character.
One who always gives credit to the authors and reporters of the content that we are quoting and sharing, recognizing that doing so is a courtesy for those who have put in the hard work.
One who is always kind. (Remember what they say: If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say it.)
One who uses our platform and our collective power for good, amplifying those whose voices aren’t being heard.
One who understands that relationships are two-way, and acknowledges the importance of reciprocating the goodwill of others. After all, the public square is a medium for us to exchange ideas.
One who is always present; and always listening.
Some in our industry would dismiss him and others, simply because their career paths didn’t hit certain check marks or qualifications. After all, it’s easy to find fault when you are intentional about it.
Respect doesn’t come with little blue badges, or whomever makes the most noise. Having a regular column doesn’t make you smarter or better. Having written a book or two also doesn’t make you a de facto authority of the tribe.
For an ecosystem that aims to disrupt the status quo, shouldn’t we also disrupt our own biases? Isn’t it past time to stop dismissing those who dare drive a different conversation or chart a different path? Isn’t it past time to put down your loudspeaker and practice active listening?
We need it, and more. And our industry is better for it.
Thank you, Sprios Margaris, for sending the elevator back down.
Thank you Theodora!
The power of community. Love this.